the Feast of the Holy Family and as a day for the restoration of
the true spirit of family life. Americans and Canadians should be
rightly proud of this feast. It is North American in origin,
founded in Montreal in 1663. The Mass and Office of the day give
Christian parents an opportunity to pray that their family life
may be sanctified by the Holy Spirit. Family life becomes
sanctified when parents carry out St. John Chrysostom's plea to
make each home a family church. This idea may seem far-fetched.
Yet Christians fulfill the sacrament of Matrimony in their homes.
Penance and Holy Eucharist are administered in the home in times
of sickness, as is Extreme Unction. In danger of death, a newborn
baby may receive Baptism at home.
It is in today's Epistle that families will find norms for
shaping Christ-like lives. "Brethren, put on therefore, as God's
chosen ones, holy and beloved, a heart of mercy, kindness,
humility, meekness, patience. Bear with one another and forgive
one another, if anyone has a grievance against any other; even as
the Lord has forgiven you, so also do you forgive. But above all
these things have charity which is the bond of perfection. And
may the peace of Christ reign in your hearts; unto that peace,
indeed, you were called in one body. Show yourselves thankful.
Let the word of Christ dwell in you abundantly; in all wisdom
teach and admonish one another by psalms, hymns, and spiritual
songs, singing in your hearts to God by his grace. Whatever you
do in word or in work, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus,
giving thanks to God the Father through him."
On this Feast of the Holy Family, we vary the usual Christmastide
prayers by using the following hymn. The sentiments expressed
make it peculiarly appropriate as a Christian family song.
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UBI CARITAS ET AMOR[14]
"Where Abideth Charity and Love"
Where abideth charity and love, God is ever there.
All together one in love of Christ, our blessed Lord.
Let us sing in exsultation of one accord.
Live we in holy fear and gentle love our life in God.
And give we to one another our hearts truly. (Repeat first line)
And whenever we come together in mind heart
There is no fear of quarreling among us to drive apart.
Cease all angry thoughts and bitter words, all evils end.
And Christ, our Brother, comes to live among us, our Guest and Friend.
Where abideth charity and love, God is ever there.